REVEALED: Diogo Jota Hand-Wrote Notes for Each of His Three Children Before His Wedding — One Addressed to “My Hero Daughter”
The tragic loss of Liverpool FC star Diogo Jota and his brother André Silva in a car crash on July 3, 2025, has left an indelible mark on their family and the football world. As new layers of Jota’s life emerge, a deeply moving discovery has come to light: before his wedding to Rute Cardoso on June 22, Jota hand-wrote personal notes for each of his three children—Denis, Duarte, and Mafalda. Found by Rute in his study after the crash, one note was addressed to “My hero daughter,” revealing the profound bond Jota shared with his one-year-old daughter, Mafalda. Alongside a letter to his unborn child, a mysterious call to his mother, and an unfulfilled promise to his son, these notes paint a portrait of a father whose love for his family defined his final days.
The Crash: A Heartbreaking End to a Joyful Time
Diogo Jota, 28, and André, 25, perished when their Lamborghini Huracan suffered a suspected tire blowout on the A-52 motorway near Cernadilla, Zamora, Spain. The car veered off, struck the central reservation, and burst into flames, killing both instantly. Jota, advised against flying due to recent lung surgery, was driving to Santander for a ferry to England for Liverpool’s pre-season. The crash came just 11 days after Jota’s wedding, weeks after Portugal’s UEFA Nations League win, and months after Liverpool’s Premier League title, marking a tragic end to a triumphant period.
Jota’s legacy as a “pressing monster” and clinical finisher—scoring 65 goals in 182 Liverpool appearances and 14 for Portugal—is matched by his devotion as a family man. Married to childhood sweetheart Rute Cardoso, Jota was father to Denis (4), Duarte (2), Mafalda (1), and expecting a fourth child. Previous discoveries—a letter to his unborn child in the glove compartment, a one-second call to his mother three hours after his death, and an untouched mini-ball for Denis—have deepened the tragedy’s emotional weight. The notes to his children, found in his Porto study, offer a final glimpse into Jota’s heart.
The Notes: A Father’s Lasting Words
Days before his wedding, Jota sat in his study, penning notes for Denis, Duarte, and Mafalda. Discovered by Rute amidst the chaos of grief, these handwritten messages were tucked in a drawer, each addressed to one of his children. The notes, written with the care of a father who knew the demands of his career often pulled him away, were meant as keepsakes, perhaps to be shared when the children were older. Their discovery, after Jota’s untimely death, has become a source of solace and sorrow for Rute, who is now raising three children and expecting a fourth alone.
The note to Mafalda, addressed to “My hero daughter,” has particularly captured the family’s attention. At just one year old, Mafalda was Jota’s only daughter, born in 2024. Sources close to the family describe the note as a tender expression of Jota’s pride in her strength and spirit, despite her young age. “Jota saw something special in Mafalda,” a family friend shared. “He called her his hero, maybe because she was so resilient, always smiling through teething or sleepless nights.” The note likely reflected Jota’s hopes for her future, a message of love to guide her through life without him.
The notes to Denis and Duarte, while private, are said to be equally heartfelt, tailored to each boy’s personality. Denis, the eldest, was promised a winning goal ball, a mini-ball found untouched on Jota’s bedside table. Duarte, the quieter middle child, likely received words of encouragement for his gentle nature. Together, these notes reveal Jota’s intentionality as a father, ensuring each child felt seen and cherished before a milestone like his wedding.
A Family’s Grief and Resilience
For Rute, finding the notes was a bittersweet moment. The study, a space where Jota planned his academy and reflected on his career, became a sanctuary of his presence. The notes, written in his familiar scrawl, brought Rute closer to her husband while underscoring his absence. “They’re a gift and a wound,” a source close to Rute said. “She’s holding onto them for the kids, but reading them now is almost too much.” As Rute prepares to welcome their fourth child, the notes join the letter to the unborn baby, offering a tangible connection to Jota’s love.
Dr. Sarah Mitchell, a grief counselor, explains the significance of such discoveries: “Handwritten notes from a loved one are like a voice from the past. For children, they become a lifeline to a parent they’ve lost, especially as they grow and seek to understand who he was.” For Mafalda, the “hero daughter” note may one day define her sense of her father, a man who saw her as extraordinary even in infancy. For Denis and Duarte, the notes will complement the mini-ball promise, weaving a narrative of a father who lived for his family.
The Football Community’s Response
The discovery has resonated deeply with fans and teammates, who continue to honor Jota and André. At the brothers’ funeral on July 5 in Gondomar, Portugal, Liverpool stars like Virgil van Dijk and Andy Robertson joined Cristiano Ronaldo and Bruno Fernandes in mourning. Liverpool has retired Jota’s number 20 shirt, and fans have left tributes at Anfield, including messages referencing the notes. “To Mafalda, Denis, and Duarte—your dad was a legend,” one scarf read. On X, fans have shared emotional responses, with one writing, “Calling his baby girl ‘My hero daughter’—Jota’s heart was pure gold.” Another urged, “Let Rute and the kids grieve in peace with these treasures.”
The notes have also sparked reflection on Jota’s character. Known for his intensity on the pitch, Jota’s off-field warmth shone through in stories like his kindness to a young fan or his Diogo Jota Academy in Gondomar, supporting local youth. The notes, like the letter and mini-ball, underscore a man who balanced global stardom with quiet, personal gestures.
A Legacy of Love
The notes, found amidst Jota’s £34.4 million estate, are priceless to his family. For Rute, they are a roadmap for raising their children in Jota’s spirit. For Isabel Silva, Jota’s mother, who received the haunting one-second call, they offer a counterpoint of love amidst her double loss. For the children, too young to fully comprehend their father’s absence, the notes will one day tell the story of a father who saw them as his world.
As Liverpool chants Jota’s song and Gondomar mourns its son, the notes to Denis, Duarte, and “My hero daughter” Mafalda stand as Jota’s final testament. They join the mini-ball, the letter, and the call as fragments of a life cut short but filled with love. For Rute and her children, these artifacts are a promise of Jota’s enduring presence, guiding them through a future he will never see but forever shaped.