A former classmate of Michael David McKee, the 39-year-old vascular surgeon accused of the premeditated murders of his ex-wife Monique Tepe and her husband Spencer Tepe on December 30, 2025, has come forward with recollections of an alarming personality trait from their school days: an intense, hidden resentment toward anyone who “outdid” him academically or otherwise. The classmate described how McKee “hated being outdone” and internalized it deeply, keeping the bitterness “a secret in his mind” rather than confronting it openly—often responding with silent determination to surpass or undermine those who scored higher than him on tests, projects, or competitions.
This account, shared in recent interviews with media outlets and echoed in true crime discussions, emerges amid growing scrutiny of McKee’s background following his January 10, 2026, arrest in Rockford, Illinois. The classmate, speaking anonymously to preserve privacy but corroborated through school-era anecdotes, recalled McKee as a top-performing student who excelled in academics and extracurriculars but reacted poorly to perceived defeats. “If someone beat him on a test or got a better grade, he wouldn’t show it outwardly—no arguments, no drama—but you could tell it ate at him,” the source said. “He’d double down in secret, studying harder, practicing more, always aiming to reclaim the top spot. It was like any ‘loss’ stayed with him, fueling this quiet drive.”
McKee’s early achievements align with this competitive profile. Growing up in Zanesville, Ohio, he was a standout at Zanesville Bishop Rosecrans High School, where he ranked fifth in his senior class, earned National Merit Scholar honors, was named biology student of the year, and joined the National Honor Society. He also played football, receiving honorable mention all-state recognition as a senior. Earlier accolades included winning a city spelling bee, honorable mention in a kids’ poster contest judged by then-Secretary of State Bob Taft as a first-grader, and recognition at age 13 during a state science day at Ohio Wesleyan University. These accomplishments painted him as a prodigious talent, but the classmate suggests this success came with an undercurrent of intolerance for being surpassed.
The revelation ties into broader speculation about McKee’s possible motives in the Tepe case. Authorities, including Columbus Police Chief Elaine Bryant, have described the killings as domestic violence-related, linked to McKee’s brief marriage to Monique (2015–2017). Family members of Monique have alleged emotional abuse and control during the relationship, with her reportedly desperate to escape. A former girlfriend and old friends have described McKee as manipulative, with a “fragile ego” devastated by Monique’s thriving new life with Spencer—marrying in late 2020, having two young children, and building a stable family—after their divorce. One friend told PEOPLE that seeing Monique succeed without him “destroyed his fragile little ego,” as he believed she “could not live without him.”
This pattern of internalized resentment—hating to be “outdone” without external confrontation—mirrors descriptions from professional colleagues. At OSF Saint Anthony Medical Center in Rockford (his employer until the arrest), coworkers called him “super quiet,” avoiding small talk, and obsessively organized with a color-coded notebook he guarded fiercely. Former associates noted his precision and intelligence but also his social detachment. Post-divorce, McKee’s career involved job-hopping across states (Virginia residency, Maryland fellowship, Nevada, California, Illinois), including efforts to evade a medical malpractice lawsuit by providing questionable contact information—described by a Nevada lawyer as him “just disappearing.”
No direct link has been confirmed between childhood competitiveness and the alleged crimes, but the classmate’s recollection adds to a portrait of someone who may have harbored long-term grudges. The divorce itself was legally clean—no children, no alimony, minor asset splits—but resurfaced erroneously on dockets in 2025 due to a clerical mix-up, just months before the murders. Police evidence includes surveillance footage of a person of interest in an alley near the Weinland Park home, vehicle tracking placing McKee near the scene between 2 a.m. and 5 a.m., and a firearm recovered from his property preliminarily matched to the shootings (with one count involving a suppressor). McKee faces multiple aggravated murder charges (some death-penalty eligible), burglary, and firearm specifications; he waived extradition in Illinois and awaits proceedings in Ohio.
The Tepe children (ages approximately 1 and 4) were found unharmed near their parents, along with the family dog—a detail that amplifies the tragedy’s horror. Spencer Tepe, a dedicated dentist and mentor, and Monique, remembered for her warmth and resilience, were preparing to celebrate milestones when their lives were cut short.
As more voices from McKee’s past emerge, they highlight how seemingly minor traits—like silent resentment over being outdone—can, in hindsight, appear as red flags in a larger pattern. The case remains under investigation, with no official motive released beyond domestic ties. Community tributes continue for the Tepes, focusing on their love, family, and legacy.
May Spencer and Monique rest in peace, and may their children find comfort amid unimaginable loss.
