REVEALED: Diogo Jota’s Wife Keeps His Last Shirt Unwashed, A Poignant Reminder of Him
In the wake of the tragic car crash that claimed the lives of Liverpool and Portugal star Diogo Jota and his brother André Silva on July 3, 2025, Rute Cardoso, Jota’s widow, has shared a deeply personal ritual that underscores her profound grief. According to sources close to the family, Rute has refused to wash the last shirt Jota wore before leaving their home in Porto, Portugal. The shirt, a simple white Liverpool FC training top, remains folded on their shared bed, where Rute places it every night. “The smell still reminds me of the moment he left,” she reportedly told a close friend, her voice breaking with emotion. This poignant act has resonated with fans worldwide, amplifying the heartbreak surrounding the loss of the 28-year-old footballer.
The shirt, faintly scented with Jota’s cologne and the sweat of his last training session, has become a tangible link to the final moments Rute shared with her husband of just 11 days. The couple, who had been together since their teenage years, married on June 22, 2025, in a joyous ceremony in Porto. Jota’s sudden death, alongside his brother André, in a fiery crash on Spain’s A-52 highway has left Rute and their three young children—Dinis, Duarte, and a daughter born in 2024—grappling with an unimaginable void. The shirt, which Jota wore while packing for his trip to Santander to catch a ferry to England, is now a sacred relic for Rute, who clings to it as a way to feel his presence.
Sources say Rute has been spending long hours in their bedroom, holding the shirt and recalling their last conversation. “He hugged me, kissed the kids, and said he’d be back soon,” she reportedly shared during a private vigil. “I can still smell him on it—it’s like he’s still here.” The shirt, adorned with Jota’s number 20, has become a symbol of her refusal to let go, even as she navigates the overwhelming grief of losing her childhood sweetheart. Friends have noted that Rute often falls asleep with the shirt beside her, a quiet act of defiance against the finality of his absence.
The story of the unwashed shirt has struck a chord on social media, particularly on X, where fans have shared their own stories of holding onto loved ones’ belongings after loss. The hashtag #JotaShirt has trended, with users posting messages of support for Rute and her children. One post, viewed over 1.3 million times, read: “Rute keeping Diogo’s shirt unwashed is the kind of love that breaks your heart. He’s still with her in every way that matters.” Another user shared a photo of a Liverpool scarf left at Anfield’s tribute site, captioned, “For Diogo, forever 20.”
The crash, attributed to a tire blowout while Jota was overtaking on the A-52 near Zamora, has been under intense scrutiny. Spanish police have suggested possible speeding, but no final conclusions have been reached. Rute’s decision to keep the shirt unwashed has drawn attention to the personal toll of the tragedy, with fans and commentators alike reflecting on the intimate details of grief. “It’s not just a shirt—it’s a piece of him,” said a family friend, speaking anonymously. “Rute’s holding onto every memory she can.”
Liverpool FC, where Jota played a pivotal role in winning the Premier League, FA Cup, and two EFL Cups, has pledged ongoing support for Rute and her family. The club’s statement, issued on July 3, described Jota’s death as an “unimaginable loss” and promised that “the players, staff, and supporters of Liverpool Football Club are all with you.” Tributes at Anfield, including scarves, flowers, and a PlayStation controller referencing Jota’s love for gaming, have continued to grow, with Rute reportedly visiting the site to lay a wreath.
Psychologists consulted by local media have noted that keeping personal items like clothing can be a common coping mechanism for those grieving. “The scent of a loved one can trigger powerful memories, offering comfort in the early stages of loss,” said Dr. Maria Costa, a grief counselor based in Porto. For Rute, the shirt is not just a memento but a lifeline to the life she and Jota built together, from their high school romance to their recent wedding, celebrated just weeks before the tragedy.
As the investigation into the crash continues, Rute’s ritual has become a focal point for those mourning Jota. Community vigils in Gondomar, where the brothers’ funeral was held on July 5, have included prayers for Rute and her children. The shirt, left untouched on the bed, serves as a quiet testament to a love that endures beyond loss, capturing the hearts of a football community united in grief.
