“She should have been a great nurse.”
Those words now echo through a grieving community after the life of Anaseini Waqavuki was violently taken, leaving behind not only heartbreak but a future that will never unfold.
For years in Sydney, Anaseini worked quietly and tirelessly as a caregiver for the elderly. Friends and colleagues describe her as gentle, patient, and deeply committed to her work. Caring for others was not simply how she earned a living — it was who she was.

But behind her daily routine was a long-term plan driven by love and sacrifice. Anaseini saved every possible dollar, denying herself comfort so she could build a better life for her three young children. Her goal was clear: to become a qualified nurse.
For Anaseini, nursing represented far more than a career. It was a lifeline. A path out of financial hardship. A way to reunite her family and give her children opportunities she never had.
She often spoke of a simple dream — wearing a crisp white nursing uniform, standing at the airport with a smile, and welcoming her children into a future shaped by stability and hope.
That dream was never realized.
In an act of brutal violence, Anaseini was killed by her ex-husband, ending a life defined by compassion and perseverance. The suddenness of her death has left family members, friends, and entire communities in Australia and Fiji struggling to comprehend how someone so devoted to caring for others could meet such a fate.
The tragedy has drawn renewed attention to the hidden dangers faced by women rebuilding their lives after separation. Advocates point out that many victims of domestic violence are targeted precisely when they are striving for independence and stability.
For Anaseini, that stability was within reach. Years of sacrifice were leading toward professional training, financial security, and family reunification. In seconds, everything was erased.
Her three children now face a future without their mother — the woman who worked relentlessly to secure their safety and dignity. Community members describe an “irreplaceable absence,” not only of a parent, but of a guiding presence.
Vigils held in her memory emphasize not just how she died, but how she lived. Candles, flowers, and messages speak of kindness, patience, and quiet strength.
Anaseini’s story resonates because it is tragically familiar. A woman devoted to others. A mother working across borders. A dream built slowly — and destroyed instantly by violence.
“She should have been a great nurse,” those who knew her say.
Instead, she is remembered as a reminder of what is lost when brutality interrupts lives shaped by care and hope.